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I am known to my family and closest friends as one of the most patient people ever. I am sorry to disappoint them because it will not stay this way for long. The threshold of my patience is already brimming because the current situation is simply too much for any sane person to tolerate.
I easily get irritated by people who just can't make up their minds. Being a fickle-minded girl is one, but being an indecisive bitch is just too much.
I think it all goes back to how a person was reared. As what I have learned in Sociology, we unconsciously adapt our parents' ways and attitude. That's how culture works. If a person was taught how to be decisive as a child, he remains to be decisive until his dying days.
Parents, being every child's first teacher, have the responsibility of teaching kids about right and wrong. They are the frontrunners of inculcating the right values to their children's hearts and minds.
Furthermore, if a person does something wrong, the blame may go all the way back to his parents for not teaching him the right values.
I'm not washing my bloody hands. I mean, no one is perfect but among the myriad of things my parents taught me, I must say I owe them a lot for teaching me how to stand firm for my decisions. I mean what I say and I say what I mean.
Black is black. White is white. There can never be black and white at the same time.
But then again, as much as I would like it to be, not everybody is like me. There are really people who nod when they're not supposed to nod. There are people who smile and act like everything is okay when the truth is that they are already freaking out.
It doesn't make sense. Why don't they speak up? We were all given free will to be able to make decisions on our own. Yes, there times that will require our compliance and obedience but it must not reach the point when our principles are already being trampled on.
One word: FIGHT.
I would rather take the risk of being humiliated and ridiculed than choosing to holding my peace forever. I don't want to spend sleepless nights wallowing in regrets. I dont want to keep on twitching on my bed during unholy hours, thinking of the what ifs.
But then again, this is me. I am not the problem.
I am concerned about "other people" whose indecisiveness is already affecting other people's perception, not to mention, their efficiency.
I think the problem is not knowing what they really want, themselves. If only they can figure it out soon, we can all start working for its achievement and or completion. Not that we all resort to a trial and error method which is just a waste of effort, money and most all, time.
Just saying... And yes, PUN INTENDED
I am known to my family and closest friends as one of the most patient people ever. I am sorry to disappoint them because it will not stay this way for long. The threshold of my patience is already brimming because the current situation is simply too much for any sane person to tolerate.
I easily get irritated by people who just can't make up their minds. Being a fickle-minded girl is one, but being an indecisive bitch is just too much.
I think it all goes back to how a person was reared. As what I have learned in Sociology, we unconsciously adapt our parents' ways and attitude. That's how culture works. If a person was taught how to be decisive as a child, he remains to be decisive until his dying days.
Parents, being every child's first teacher, have the responsibility of teaching kids about right and wrong. They are the frontrunners of inculcating the right values to their children's hearts and minds.
Furthermore, if a person does something wrong, the blame may go all the way back to his parents for not teaching him the right values.
I'm not washing my bloody hands. I mean, no one is perfect but among the myriad of things my parents taught me, I must say I owe them a lot for teaching me how to stand firm for my decisions. I mean what I say and I say what I mean.
Black is black. White is white. There can never be black and white at the same time.
But then again, as much as I would like it to be, not everybody is like me. There are really people who nod when they're not supposed to nod. There are people who smile and act like everything is okay when the truth is that they are already freaking out.
It doesn't make sense. Why don't they speak up? We were all given free will to be able to make decisions on our own. Yes, there times that will require our compliance and obedience but it must not reach the point when our principles are already being trampled on.
One word: FIGHT.
I would rather take the risk of being humiliated and ridiculed than choosing to holding my peace forever. I don't want to spend sleepless nights wallowing in regrets. I dont want to keep on twitching on my bed during unholy hours, thinking of the what ifs.
But then again, this is me. I am not the problem.
I am concerned about "other people" whose indecisiveness is already affecting other people's perception, not to mention, their efficiency.
I think the problem is not knowing what they really want, themselves. If only they can figure it out soon, we can all start working for its achievement and or completion. Not that we all resort to a trial and error method which is just a waste of effort, money and most all, time.
Just saying... And yes, PUN INTENDED
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